The pull toward something more
I find that the thirst for adventure, the willingness to explore, is innate. There is something deep inside of us that pulls us to go beyond the norm and pursue something different. It is hard to describe. It is not always logical, and it is not always loud. It is often just a simple feeling, a quiet whisper that says, there is more for you here.
I have always felt the inclination to do something different, to create my own path, even if it is hard to explain to everyone. Some think that I am a dreamer and not realistic. Others feel the energy, get inspired, and our conversation ends up stretching out for hours. What is the correct answer? I don’t know, and I am not sure I am close to finding out. But what I do know is that adventure and exploring fuel my heart, and I have learned to listen when that whisper returns.

Footsteps on a borrowed trail
Specifically on this subject, I was hiking in the woods last week, trekking along a path made by so many before me. It had snowed quite heavily, so the entire forest was covered with a fresh white sheet, and only this trail was marked clearly as a way through.
The air was sharp and clean. Every breath felt like it rinsed the inside of my chest. The trees stood quiet and tall, carrying their own patience, their own stillness. My boots pressed into the snow with that soft crunch that feels both delicate and certain. I could see my footsteps forming behind me like a simple record of presence, a reminder that I was here, and that I was moving.
Yet, one of my favorite things to do in winter, walking through the forest, is to get off the main path and go deeper in. Ideally, you never truly get lost because I learned that all you have to do is turn around and follow your footsteps back. That simple truth has stayed with me, not only in the woods, but in life.
The voice that keeps us safe
As I was walking along, I became restless with how ordinary it felt. There was no adventure, no risk, nothing that made me feel alive. Many can argue that I may not need to feel alive in that way, and that what is beautiful is to simply take a stroll and watch the trees. Trust me, I have had my share of those days. But that day, I wanted something different. I wanted to feel the edge of the unknown.
So I turned sideways and started walking into the forest, not knowing where I would end up. The snow was deep, and within moments it began creeping into my socks. Then a voice appeared in my mind, almost like it had been waiting.
What are you doing? Just relax and enjoy the path. Why are you making it more difficult than it needs to be?
I find that in life, we all have these voices, constantly commenting on our choices. Are they wrong? Not quite. As a species, we have advanced because of these voices. They protect us, shield us, and keep us safe. They exist to ensure we survive, to ensure we carry life forward for generations to come.
Yet they also play another role. For those like me, they sometimes get in the way. They can become the gatekeepers of comfort, and we must meet them directly if we want to grow. Not with anger, but with awareness. Not by silencing them, but by choosing anyway.
Expanded consciousness in the snow
As I moved through the trees, I felt that tingling feeling, the one that comes when you step outside your comfort zone. It is unsure and heightened, and strangely alive. My levels of awareness shifted. My body felt ready, alert. My mind became sharp and focused. The world felt closer. The sounds of the forest, the weight of the snow on the branches, even the rhythm of my breath felt amplified.
This is the kind of living in the present moment that cannot be forced. It arrives when you are fully engaged with what is in front of you. It reminds me of something I wrote about in living in the present moment. Sometimes presence is not gentle. Sometimes it is earned through motion, through uncertainty, through choosing the unfamiliar.
These are the moments when we step into an arena that most only think about, and few enter. It brings me back to a quote I love by Theodore Roosevelt:
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
Theodore Roosevelt
It is in these times that you reclaim your inner power and get closer to feeling truly alive.
The river that waited beyond the trees
Surprisingly, what happened next gave me a deeper appreciation for leaving the regular path. After a while, I came out of the thick woods and landed on another trail. Yet this one was different.
It ran along a beautiful river, steady and flowing beneath the winter silence. The water moved with quiet confidence, carving its way forward without hesitation. The trees felt richer here, fuller, as if the river nourished everything it touched. The snow along the banks looked untouched and pure, and the air carried that faint scent of cold water and evergreen. I paused for a moment, just to listen. The river did not rush, yet it never stopped. It simply continued.
What struck me most was that this new trail was in the same direction as the original path. It was parallel to it. I could have stayed on the marked trail and appreciated the calmness and serenity, and that would have been just fine. Yet by venturing into the unknown with no expectations, I landed on a new path that offered a completely different experience. More vibrance. More life. More depth.
It reminded me of something I have felt while building My Energy Flow. There are seasons where you begin with intention, and then life redirects you toward alignment. I wrote about that in From Intention to Alignment. Sometimes the “better” path is not the safer one. Sometimes it is the one that asks you to trust yourself a little more.
And in a world that is changing quickly, where ancient wisdom meets modern possibility, we need both. We need the grounded teachings of the past, and the courage to explore what comes next. That balance is something I reflected on in Ancient Wisdom, Modern Wellness. The path forward often requires both reverence and risk.
A gentle blessing for your own journey
What is the right thing to do? It may be different for everyone. Yet these experiences have shown me something simple. You must not push others to step outside their comfort zone. You do not need to explain or justify your actions when they seem odd to someone else. All you need to do is be uniquely and authentically you.
If it feels right for you to step off the path and explore, then I wish you a happy and splendid journey. May you trust the whisper that leads you forward, and may you discover the river that was waiting for you all along.
From my heart,
Pedram Beheshti
